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27 Kasım 2011 Pazar

VİDEO REFLECTİON 2: Dont make the children unhappy!



    From the past to present, people all over the world have determined to live together, which is called “get marriaged” in another word. So, they depend on for living each other. Nevertheless, some couples are unable to maintain their relationship; therefore they choose divorce as a solution.
    Nowadays, divorce is a popular tendency among many married people.However, divorce is nothing new.In recent decades, there has been a sharp increase in the numbers of men and women ending their marriages.This resulted from many factors, including the relaxation of legislation, secularization and heightened expectations for emotional satisfaction within marriage etc…In addition to these; extra marital affairs, emotional- physical abuse , addictions, workaholism, jealousy, change in priorities cause to divorce. Those reasons are so various that I can’t say all of them.
    But ,I think that changes in society and women’s changing roles in a society are the leading factors. In the past, men have to earn whole money to afford the expense of family, whereas woman only do housework, hence women have no money leading to depend on husbands’ money. Because of these situations, it is too difficult for most women to separate from their husbands. Nonetheless, these situations entirely change nowadays. The equality between men and women in roles are very clear at the moment, thus women can work outside to earn money, while men share the household tasks such as cooking, cleaning, washing as well as caring for children.Lacking of respect and responsibility, fidelity also cause this phenomenon. Couples living for a long time together can be boring for each other.Sometimes,couples cant rely on each other. A lack of communication result in divorce,sometimes. Owing to financial status in each family, many people are fairly busy. For this reason, they have inadequate time to talk to the problems with their partners, which produces the likelihood of divorce
   I agree with these reasons,absolutely.I choose this issue since I have read a magazine article arguing this subject recently.It affected me and I made up my mind to write my journal based on it.
   Many reasons underlying this phenomenon are shown to us ,in this video... But, the increasing rates of divorce makes me unhappy. I think couples must know each other well before marriage so that neither themselves nor their children can be affected. At least ,if they must break up, it is crucial that they decide this at the beginning of their relationship.

1 yorum:

  1. It is a really broad topic that you have chosen. Divorce has so many reasons and it is really true that divorce rates are increasing. As time passes we people get more fragile, impatient and intolerant, I guess and we try to find the easiest way to get rid of problems. Maybe that's why divorces are increasing so rapidly. I liked your outline and how you developed the main idea. I totally agree with you divorces should be less. However, at the same time I can understand how difficult it is to keep being married if something is lost inside. Therefore, I think, like you, couples should get to know each other before marriage so that they won't be hurt in the future.

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